There's something about January that makes us all lose our minds a little bit. We convince ourselves that this is THE month. The fresh start. The clean slate. The moment when everything changes. So we create these elaborate plans. We set impossible standards. We try to overhaul our entire lives all at once while still, you know, living our actual lives. And then reality hits.

Let me be clear about something right up front. The number changing from 2025 to 2026 doesn't magically transform anything. January 1st is just another day. The sun will come up the same way it did on December 31st. You'll wake up as the same person with the same life and the same challenges. The calendar switching doesn't create a fresh start. YOU create the fresh start. The calendar just gives us the kick in the pants to do it.

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I wasn't setting my team up for success. I was holding everything so close that they couldn't function without me. And if I'm being truly honest, many years back I was probably a little too insecure in my role. There was some fear that went along with holding it all so close, fear that someone might take the ball and run with it, fear that they might not need me as much as I thought they did.

We all know social media isn't real life. Nobody posts pictures of their messy kitchen or their kid's meltdown in the grocery store or the fight they had with their spouse about whose turn it is to take out the trash. They post the vacation photos, the perfectly plated dinners, the smiling family pictures. But somehow, we forget that the same principle applies at work. You see other leaders in meetings where they're prepared and confident. You see them giving presentations

Here's what this all comes down to: we're all adults here. We all work with people we don't particularly like. We all have colleagues we'd rather not spend time with. We all have had conflicts and disagreements and personality clashes. But somehow, most of us manage to put on our big kid pants and act professionally anyway. We respond to emails from people who annoy us. We collaborate with people we'd never choose to hang out with. We're polite to people we'd cross the stree

Let me paint you a picture of my past self: Friday afternoon, 4:30 PM. My desk looks like a paper explosion. Fifteen browser tabs open. Unread emails stacking up. Post-it notes stuck to everything. My brain is already halfway to the weekend, but there's this nagging feeling in my gut that I'm forgetting something important.

Here's the thing: we've created this narrative about generational differences that's doing way more harm than good. We've bought into these sweeping generalizations, Boomers are rigid workaholics, Millennials are entitled, Gen Z can't focus, Gen X is… wait, does anyone ever talk about Gen X? The reality is so much more nuanced and honestly, so much more interesting.

You know that employee who used to be your go-to person? The one who'd volunteer for projects, stay late when needed, and bring energy to team meetings? Yeah, they're still showing up. They're still doing their job. But something's different. The spark is gone. They're doing exactly what's required and not one thing more. Welcome to the world of quiet quitting, and if you haven't noticed it on your team yet, you're either incredibly lucky or not paying close enough attention.

Difficult conversations are…well…difficult. There's no sugarcoating it. Whether you're addressing performance issues, navigating conflict between team members, or confronting your own manager about a concern, these conversations trigger every self-preservation instinct we have. Our palms sweat. Our hearts race. We mentally rehearse what we'll say at 2 AM, crafting the perfect words we'll probably forget the moment we sit down.

Leadership coaching isn't about fixing broken leaders. It's about helping good leaders become even more effective. It's about having someone who can see your blind spots, challenge your assumptions, and help you develop skills you didn't even know you needed.

A micromanager dictates exactly how tasks must be done, hovering over every detail and controlling every step. A leader provides vision and overall direction, then trusts their team to figure out how to get there.

Your to-do list will always be longer than your available time. There will always be another project, another problem, another opportunity, another crisis. The inbox will never stay at zero. The goals will keep shifting. The demands will keep coming.

Finding your professional voice isn't about learning to speak up if you're naturally quiet. For people like me, it's about learning to speak up strategically, meaningfully, and at the right times.

"When you don't set clear boundaries, you're handing over control of your life to people who don't have the same investment in your well-being that your family does."

But regardless of the field, leadership challenges have something in common: they can make you feel like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. Like you're the only one who's ever dealt with this particular mess. Like there's no one who could possibly understand the complexity of what you're navigating.

In those moments, knowing your why isn't just some fluffy motivational concept. It's the difference between pushing through and giving up. It's what reminds you that this work matters beyond the immediate frustration.

Congratulations! You've just been promoted to supervisor. You probably feel a mix of excitement, pride, and if we're being honest, some serious anxiety. Yesterday you and your friend Chris were talking about your weekend plans and now today you’re preparing his job assignments. Yesterday you were complaining about policies with your team, and today you're responsible for enforcing them.

"As you enter the world of leadership, buckle up. You're in for one hell of a ride."